Friday, May 22, 2015


Oy. Okay. This is a touchy subject, I know, and this has been sitting in my drafts for a while (a while? I've had this blog for like a week), but here goes the "publish."

Body image is big in media these days. Magazines, online articles, and commercials are ripping the issue to shreds.

We read all about THIS WORKOUT THAT WILL GIVE YOU THE MAX CALORIE BURN. And why do we care about calorie burn? To lose weight. Why do we want to lose weight? To look "better."

We also read all about LOVE YOURSELF FOR WHO YOU ARE, CELLULITE AND ALL. Because who wants to constantly look at themselves in the mirror and hate what they see?

And then we see things like REAL WOMEN POSED FOR THIS AD, COME LOOK! So if you're not a string bean, you're real? So if you are a string bean, you're not real?

I have a question - a question that may get backlash, but I'm putting it out there - why do we read about anything at all? Why do we bother talking about women's bodies (or men's bodies... I'm looking at you, Dad Bod fad) at all? Why does it have to be a topic?

This blade of grass is greener. And that one is slightly bent. The one over there is more oval than rectangular. But does it matter? All the blades together make up a beautiful meadow, right? If they were all the same, wouldn't it be like walking over a toothbrush? Ew. (Also, this conversation is making me think of my first post).

I'm saying let's all just shut up. Yes, I know that by writing this post in the first place, I'm doing the opposite, but really, can we just stop? If we talk about beauty standards, then there will be beauty standards.

Let good looks be like Oprah's car giveaway.


Can I get an "Amen?"


  1. Love this. So so true! I always feel like magazines, especially women's health magazines are along the lines of "you are all beautiful no matter what, but here are 5 exercise to lose 2 sizes and 10 pounds by the weekend!" Very confused... As long as my clothes fit, I feel good : ) Hope you have a great MDW!

    1. Right!? It's crazy and contradicting! I'm glad I'm not the only one noticing these things ha. Have a great weekend yourself!

  2. I'm not sure if my comments are going through but...

    Oh my gosh you know I'm all about this. Amen!! I love the meadow analogy. So eloquent!

    1. Thanks! And actually your problem area post gave me the courage to publish this :)